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How to Talk to Someone with Dementia
Six plain-language communication principles that reduce conflict and confusion.
Dementia changes how a person processes language, emotion, and memory. Adjusting how you communicate is one of the highest-leverage things a family can do.
1. Don't argue
Logic doesn't fix dementia symptoms. Arguing creates fear and shame without changing behavior.
2. Don't over-explain
Long explanations overload working memory. Use short sentences. One idea at a time.
3. Match the emotion, not the facts
If they're scared, reassure first. The accuracy of the underlying belief comes second — sometimes never.
4. Redirect gently
Instead of correcting ("Mom, Dad died in 2018"), redirect to a related comfortable topic.
5. Keep routines simple
Predictable days reduce confusion and reduce "behaviors."
6. Reduce noise
TV in the background, multiple people talking at once, and bright clutter all increase confusion. Calm the environment first.